Hello! My boyfriend and I have been really eager to successfully try anal, but every time we do it its a pain in the ass (pardon my pun). I was wondering if you have any tips to make it a little more easier on us?

nymphoninjas:

For us the most important part of anal is patience. Equally important of course is lube and practice. When your boyfriend enters you he must go as slow as possible and take long breaks for you to breath and relax every little bit. You can’t rush anal or you’re going to get hurt. And try starting with something smaller than a cock if you’re brand new to anal play. You can use your own fingers while masturbating or while he fucks you to get used to the sensation. And when you’re ready for something larger like his cock or a dildo, go very very slow and breathe and let your body adapt. Once you’re relaxed it should start to feel good and make everything else more sensitive, but if it continues to hurt don’t force it because anal is not for everyone.